Friday, December 12, 2008

The Joys of Motherhood

So, I've been wanting to blog for a long time, about random things that Alissa is doing, but I lost my camera, and I really wanted to be able to post pictures along with the blog. So, I'm going to blog tonight and then get my old camera that doesn't work as well and post pictures tomorrow. 

I've been really enjoying motherhood, and have found that all my emotions have been intensified since I've become pregnant. I got to experience Alissa's first bloody cut and her second all in one day. On November 19, I was pushing Alissa in an umbrella stroller, she had sat down in the stroller probably 1 minute before. Next thing I know, I was stopping and Alissa fell out on her face. I went to help her up thinking, that she was fine, and found blood on her mouth. She had fallen asleep in the stroller and when she fell she cut her lip. My mom was with me and she was able to take charge, we were in line at the grocery store, so she asked the worker to go get some popsicles. Alissa was fine after that, just a little fat lip. Later that day, we flew to Utah for thanksgiving and before we were going to bed, Alissa started jumping on the bed, she fell, and hit her head on the wall, on a chair rail. Again, thinking she was fine, I went to help her and when I saw her face, she had a nice cut above her eyebrow, I proceeded to run her upstairs where Eric was to figure out what to do about it. We then asked LaNette if she thought she would need stitches, and instead, we just put a butterfly bandage on it. Now, Alissa handled all these incidents rather well, but that night I was an emotional mess. It's so hard to watch your precious baby girl get hurt and know that you could have been more careful and prevented both of them. I don't know how parents do it over and over again, but I just pray that my kids don't get hurt more than a couple times. 

Alissa has been learning new words, at an amazing speed. Eric and I, marvel at how quickly she learns. Just the other day, I showed her a snowman on my sock and now she knows the word, "snowan" and points them out all the time. She has also picked up the phrase, "bye, adios" from Handy Manny. It is very cute when she says that. She also walks around the house saying, "oohh, Peete", and "ooh toodles" from Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. As you can see she watches slightly too much tv, she's learned to use sign language and talk from it. She is also trying to get me to potty train her. She asks to go potty every so often, and she doesn't usually go, but she sits on the potty for a second, then says she's all done, jumps off and flushes the toilet. But just yesterday, she went in her potty for the first time. At first she was worried that she wasn't supposed to, but I let her know that it was good. 

I'm also getting excited for a new little one around the house, I'm now 23 weeks. And the baby is starting to move a lot more often. For those of you who don't know, we picked out names. If it's a girl, Juliana Joy, after Julee, and if it's a boy, Anthony Eric, after Tony. Eric and I are very happy with the names we chose and while Eric is hoping for little Anthony, I'm hoping for sweet Juliana. 

5 comments:

Beverly Hernandez said...

Great post, I love it. It was very insightful and entertaining. It's always a joy to hear a bit of what's in your heart.

Unfortunately, little ones do get hurt and they do bleed. It doesn't really get easier. But yeah, we can prevent some of the injuries by being careful, but even then, they seem to find a way.

She's gorgeous, scar and all.

Cher said...

Your post made me cry. Reading about Alissa brings back so many memories.....my heart is forever hers!

Broken In Love said...

hmmmmmm it is going to be a boy!! jessica it is going to be a boy! hahahaha im gunna pray and know when I pray things happen..... =p cant wait =D

Briana "Symmie" Simmons said...

CC Jerry would faint at the site of this post...all that blood talk :)

I so wish God had planned us to live closer to each other. Every time you post I feel like I am missing a whole world of yours and that makes me sad. I love my cousin Jess and I miss her like CRAZY!!!

Alright no comments about living closer together making you crazy :)

Sheri Nash said...

Congrats Jessica and Erik on the new little one. Hope all is going good. We know the blood and injury thing, the kids seem to do better then the parents through it all. We missed you when we were down maybe next time.

 
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